Sunday, March 23, 2008

Easter

there's no parking on our street this morning, so packed is the road with easter sunday churchgoers.

i kind of understand the impulse, even though i've sworn off christianity for the sake of my mental wellbeing and dignity. of all church services of the year, easter sunday was the best, even if you did have to get up early. then again, everyone with kids was up early anyway. i used to lie in bed on easter morning preparing myself for the possibility that the easter bunny might not have come after all, just to intensify that thrill of lilac raffia and big easter rabbits that i fervently hoped were solid.

church felt as right as it ever did at the sunrise service. celebrating while the sun rose made the event thrillingly pagan -- not that we used that language -- and people tended to be in a good mood. even sour mrs donelon (RIP, killed in a horrific car accident just last fall) said hello to the teenagers. the campbells, tanned and lined, would be back from wintering in arizona, talking flamboyantly and, we felt, a bit pridefully about the snowbird life. roslyn hanchard, the prettiest girl at church, would have a new hat and kim mabbott, the doctor's daughter, would be wearing a whole new outfit. the doctor's entire family would come to braemar on easter sunday, looking very well dressed and just a bit uncomfortable. did they know, then, that jim would end his career in disgrace? for the most part we put the knives away on easter sunday, welcoming even the pastor's hippie daughter who had a child out of wedlock (we did use that phrase, "out of wedlock") and, worse, was whispered to be "a vegetarian!" in a good year the weather would be warm enough that we'd be able to wear white sandals instead of brown boots, our reinforced-toe nylons poking through.

easter music was always the best. not even braemar baptist's lugubrious congregation could turn "and can it be / that i should gain" into a dirge (though i've just done a quick internet search to remind myself of the lyrics, and i see that some can). in the early 1980s my friend sylvia and i would play the descant on our flutes, standing as close as possible to the musically talented carmichael family who would sing soprano, alto, tenor and bass. dimpled betty-mae macdonald, whose daughter wore enviable black-and-white saddle shoes that, she told us confidently, were Orthopedic, was another singer, with a sweet pure voice that ascended to the heavens.

after the service there would be food -- refreshments, they were called. the plain ladies, the widows and those who couldn't sing would spend the service in the church kitchen plating dainties and slices contributed by the hospitality committee, so that when we all trooped back to the church gym after the service we could hold the sugar crash at bay for another few hours.

the very best part about easter sunday? you were set free by 10:00 am.

1 comment:

Roberta said...

Love your blog...look for it every day...

I remember Easters as a kid. We usually got new "church" shoes and possibly a new wee hat. Raised a Presbyterian it was mandatory to go to sunday school and church every sunday but Easter was more fun. Even as a child I didnt believe in the Easter Story or the whole Christian story but at that time I didnt have a choice. I went.

Easter Bunny would leave small gifts and maybe some Choc. but as a child I really dont remember it being a Easter Bunny time as it was a Church Hurrah Christ has Risen time.

Once my Mom was a Grandmother and I had Easter more as a Easter Bunny time she also joined in on that tradition. I still kept the tradition going of buying my girls new shoes for Easter....one of my daughters seems to have caught that bug from her Mother and continues to purchase shoes for any/all/or no occasion :-)

Easter in a Unitarian Church is all about music, singing, spring and the Miracle of love, kindness and helpful community. You might even recognize the music of the traditional Easter Hymns but the words have been changed to protect the innocent :-)

Easter was more difficult this year for all of us here in Ottawa. We changed the clocks earlier this year, Easter came earlier this year but unfortunately Spring has not come to Ottawa early this year. We still have 12 foot snow banks and the temperature this morning was 17 below and windy. I know it is good for the Sugar Bush to have warm days and cold nights and it is good for the people who live by the water because hopefully some of this snow will evaporate rather than run into their basements but but but for all of us who dont live by the water we really would like to see spring hurry up a bit.

Off to eat the ears off the Choc. bunny I got....my daughters remember that tradition as well. Mothers eat the ears off their bunnies.....we are a mean bunch :-)